Sara De Simoni The results of my sociometric interview are that at question n°1 the american girl decides to speak first if the boy is a quiet person otherwise not; at question n°2 she would like that the boy ask the telephone number, while at question n°3 she said that if she has asked the telephone, she will decide to call the boy to meet him another time. At question n°4 she will be more confortable to drive, she can also take the bus in fact she wouldn't refuse the date. The student said she doesn't like the traditional gentlemen because there is respect and so she is able to do everything by herself, to question n°5. About the taboos question, the number 6, she thinks that the subjects to avoid are ex-girlfriends. She said she talks about herself, for example music, tv, life to win the interest of her interlocutor, to the question n°7. At the end of the report, in her opinion she doesn't kiss at the first date, above all in front of the door of her house. In conclusion, I find out that the american girl is both traditional and feminist, she is also in the van. But behind this sociometric questionnaire there is an implicit social model that it is the italian one in which the relationship between boys and girls is the focal point of the society. I did some hypotheses about american people in fact I thought they were less traditional about relationship between boys and girls, while I believed they had traditional family values, in addition I thought they were expansive and independent people. During my ethnographic interview I discovered thanks to my narrations that the girl is very expansive, independent and bound to her family like I believed, but I didn't think she could be so traditional at the first date. I had an empathic intuition with her: she laughted with me, she wasn't formal and I saw she was very interested in my culture, in fact she wanted to do question in italian to learn something about my world. But it's normal in these cases to fall in the subjectivity of the person who is in front of us, but I think to have in part deleted the problem through the empathy which is manifested between us, because we felt connected each other. Thus, we gave each other our e-mail address, we have found a friend.